It’s hard to believe that this is the last time I will write for Stratejoy. What an incredible journey its been.
Six Months Ago…
I was broken, damaged, depressed, and spiraling into a scary black hole. I had just lost my comfortable Corporate job and didn’t know what the next step was because no one prepared me for a devastating job loss. I decided that the only way I could save myself from an unhappy lifestyle was to leave it. So I packed my bags, said goodbye to friends and family, and moved to Prague to get certified to teach English as a second language.
There, I met 23 wonderful people from all over the world and discovered a new passion for education and for life. I struggled with language barriers, culture shock, and the stress of lesson planning, but I created some priceless memories in Prague that outweigh any negative feelings of the experience.
Of course, little did I know that that certificate would open so many doors for me and lead me on a journey of a lifetime.
I’m living in a 4-bedroom flat in Sydney, Australia that I share with three other men. I’m teaching private lessons and taking on more freelance writing projects. I’ve created a good friend-base in Sydney, connected with a blogger from back home who has been living here for over a year, and reconnected with some friends from America whom I haven’t seen in a few years.
I went sky diving, discovered forgiveness, and uncovered loneliness in the Land Down Under. I learned to cover the scars and open wounds with new adventures and experiences full of love, passion, and gratitude. I gained confidence in traveling solo. I shattered comfort zones and crossed boundaries. I struggled with language barriers and culture shock. But most importantly, I found happiness in Australia.
I’m going bungee jumping in New Zealand in a few weeks and celebrating my 28th birthday in September in my new home with my new friends (and some old ones). I’m going to Cairns to see the Great Barrier Reef and this summer (or winter for all of you folk in America), I’m going to learn how to surf.
I’m planning trips to South Africa and South America in 2012 and I added “build a language school in Africa” to my life list.
I’m taking life by the balls and running with it. Wherever it takes me and whatever it throws at me, I’m going to face it all with courage and grace. I’m going to open my heart up to extraordinary possibilities and never look back.
Life doesn’t always turn out the way we want it to, but that’s no reason to stop living for the moment. I know it’s hard, I know it can become overwhelming, depressing, and stagnant at times, but you have to keep pushing through it, figure out what you want to do with your life, and then go do it.
I won’t lie, it’s fucking scary as hell to leave everything you know and start over, but it’s even scarier to know that you never tried to make a change, chase your dream, quit your job, or travel the world. Stop settling for a mediocre life. Stop making excuses. Stop complaining about not being able to do certain things with your life. You can do whatever you want, but you have to have the will to try.
Start living with passion and intention. Start making a list of all of the things you want to do with your life and then go do them. Tomorrow is promised to no one. We only have today and we only have one life to be happy, live passionately, and smile intently. So, go out there and live your best life.
Thank you to all of my readers for supporting me through this amazing experience. Thank you to my Season 4 Sisters for letting me share this experience with you. Thank you to Katie for all of the brainstorming g-chat sessions and ‘behind the scenes’ stuff that you do for Stratejoy. Thank you to Molly for creating Stratejoy, letting me be a part of Season 4, and empowering women to fight the QLC and take control of their lives.
Sending you all mad love from the wonderful world of Oz!